Are you dealing with
someone who delights in making your life difficult? Do
you have to “talk on eggshells” around this person because you never
know what might trigger a tirade? Do you have a co-worker who cuts you
down to size and then claims he or she was “just kidding?” Are you
happier when you’re NOT around this person?
Bullies want what
they want when they want it - and they don't care who they have to hurt
to get it. Sound familiar? Bullies don't want a win-win. They want to
win. They don't want to cooperate; they want to control.
The good news is, you can stand up to bullies without jeopardizing your
job, your integrity, your health, or your sanity.
Learn how to:
Stop mean-spirited teasing or gossiping
Develop "No" power so you don't cave under
pressure and agree to things you don't want to do
Put up a "brave front" and adopt a "Don't you
dare" attitude so bullies leave you alone
Protect yourself from charming-one-minute,
cruel-the-next Jekyll-Hyde types
Hold verbal abusers accountable for unacceptable
Establish and enforce personal boundaries so
people don't take advantage of your good nature
"Fire" customers who repeatedly violate your
policies and procedures
Develop clarity about your rights so you have the
courage to NOT let people mistreat you
Sam dares to tell
the truth. The nicer we are to bullies, the meaner they'll be to us.
Thankfully, there are constructive alternatives to giving in, going
along, and suffering in silence. This one-of-a-kind seminar teaches you,
as Dave Pelzer, author of A Child Called It said in his cover
endorsement of Take The Bully By The Horns, "to avoid negative
confrontations and face those who intimidate and manipulate you -
without sacrificing your integrity."
Does Your Child's
School Have an Anti-Violence Program?
Are you a Principal, Teacher, or Counselor Who Would Like to Teach
Students How to Deal with Bullies? Contact us to find out about our
special Banish Bullies in Our Schools programs.
Contact Sam Horn at
Action Seminars at (805) 528-4351;
or send her an e-mail at
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